Is it a uniquely male crisis to fear being forgotten?  Every stop of Derek Jeter’s farewell tour sizes up his contributions to the New York Yankees and his place in the club of men to throw on the pinstripes. As every POTUS before him, Mr. Obama is followed by debate of being remembered in history books as the “_______________” president.  Hell, every damnable act Lord Tywin orders is for the sake of the Lannister name (well at least he says).  So, if being forgotten is man’s fear, then how does man not become forgotten?  An easy answer, I think, is to be something bigger than man.